One of the areas of law that in which I was fairly certain I would never practice was family law. Then, in law school, I had a lesbian professor who taught my family law class and I saw it from a different perspective. She helped me to see the importance of dedicated lawyers in this practice area.
Since Mary and I started Rainbow Law Center we've had occasion to take on a handful of family law cases. A recent case is illustrative.
We had a gay male client who had previously been in a heterosexual marriage which had produced 2 children. Our client soon entered into a committed relationship with another man and they'd been together nearly 4 years when he brought his case to us. The divorce decree granted the parents joint legal and shared physical custody. Our client had regular and frequent parenting time with his children, every week (3 days a week). Because of the shared nature of the physical custody, child support was considerably lower than it might have been with one parent having primary physical custody and the other getting only periodic visitation.
In an apparent bid to increase her child support, our client's ex-wife filed a motion to modify parenting time. The motion argued that our client's parenting time should be drastically reduced and offered his homosexuality as its only justification. Our client's divorce decree prohibited "unrelated overnight guests" while either parent had the children for parenting time. The lawyer for our client's ex-wife argued that our client's co-habitation with his same-sex partner violated that provision. Prior to our being retained, our client had a different lawyer and, in response to a similar motion from the other side, argued to have that clause stricken from the decree. The referrer assigned to the case refused to strike the clause noting that our client's "lifestyle was predictable" at the time the agreement was entered into.
We filed a responsive motion and I argued our client's case in front of the same referrer assigned to the case. Armed with research, case law, two dictionaries (Black's Law Dictionary and Webster's) and common sense I argued that such a provision was inapplicable to the current situation. Our client had no unrelated overnight "guests" in his home during parenting time -- his partner was not a guest in his own home. The referee was, I think, surprised but ultimately agreed. The referee asked the other side what other circumstances they could offer that would give her grounds for modifying the parenting time and the other side again offered only his homosexuality. My favorite line from the referee's decision: "Family Court does not discriminate against parents on the basis of their sexual orientation."
We won that case (although the other side may choose (and will probably choose) to object to it (similar to an appeal)).
Although we have other, similar cases to the one describe above, we also have other family law clients where we are helping to form families instead of fighting in divorce or custody actions. We have clients where we are helping them to adopt or become pregnant with sperm donors. That is very exciting and rewarding for us.
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